Eros--Passionate love

1. My lover and I were attracted to each other immediately after we first met.
2. My lover and I have the right physical "chemistry" between us.
3. Our lovemaking is very intense and satisfying.
4. I feel that my lover and I were meant for each other.
5. My lover and I became physically involved very quickly.
6. My lover and I really understand each other.
7. My lover fits my ideal standards of physical beauty/handsomeness.

Ludus--Love as a game

1. I try to keep my lover a little uncertain about my commitment to him/her.
2. I believe that what my lover doesnt know about me wont hurt him/her.
3. I have sometimes had to keep two of my lovers from finding out about each other.
4. I get over love affairs pretty easily and quickly.
5. My lover would get upset if he/she knew of some of the things Ive done with ocher people.
6. When my lover gets coo dependent on me, I want to back off a little.
7. I enjoy playing the "game of love" with a number of different partners.

Storge--Love as friendship

1. I did not realize that I was in love until I actually had been for some time.
2. I cannot love unless I first had caring for awhile.
3. I still have good friendships with almost everyone with whom I have ever been involved in a love relationship.
4. The best kind of love grows out of long friendship.
5. It is hard to say exactly when my lover and I fell in love.
6. Love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious. mystical emotion.
7. My most satisfying love relationships have developed from good friendship.

Pragma--Love as logical and rational

1. I consider what a person is going to become in life before I commit myself to him/her.
2. I try to plan my life carefully before choosing a lover.
3. It is best to love someone with a similar background.
4. A main consideration in choosing a lover is how he/she reflects on my family
5. An important factor in choosing a partner As whether or not he/she will be good parent.
6. One consideration in choosing a partner is how he/she will reflect on my career.
7. Before getting very involved with anyone, I try to figure out how compatible his/her hereditary background is with mine in case we ever have children.

Mania--Possessive, dependent love

1. When things aren't right with my lover and me, my stomach gets upset.
2. When my love affairs break up, I get so depressed that I have even thought of suicide.
3. Sometimes I get so excited about being in love that I can't sleep.
4. When my lover doesn't pay attention to me, I feel sick all over.
5. When I am in love, I have trouble concentrating on anything else.
6. I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else.
7. If my lover ignores me for a while, I sometimes do stupid things to get his attention back.

Agape--Altrustic, all giving love

1. I try to use my own strength to help my lover through difficult times.
2. I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer.
3. I cannot be happy unless I place my lovers happiness before my own.
4. I am usually willing to sacrifice my own wishes to let my lover achieve hi& hers.
5. Whatever I own is my lovers to use as he/she chooses.
6. When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally.
7.  I would endure all things for the sake of my lover.