Congratulations! You now know two moves. At this point, you can make sure the lead is leading and the follow is following.  In particular, the lead can arbitrarily decide what the next move is going to be, and can have a ridiculous amount of fun just seeing if the follow is really following (she may be an ornery one). If follows find this sort of male chauvinism unbearable, remember that *everything* that goes wrong is *always* the lead's fault (the easiest way out of this predicament is for everyone to agree that there are no mistakes).